Pressure Of insecuritys

As some of you may not know...I like to blog a lot!! I love to write and is really become one of my passions and the thing I love doing the most alongside singing. I just like to address certain things or reinterate different topics for common sense or "face the reality" reasons. Basically things are not done like they should and things are left unsaid. Maybe certain things are better left unsaid or undone. Who knows? The fact of the matter is that people do things to make them feel like they are "whole" or "complete". People also refer to different things as "doing the right thing" for themselves and that is not always the case here. Life may be hard at times but damn is it that serious to go out of your way to do things that you think will make you feel happy or to fight your insecure feelings? The big answer to that is a capital NO! If you are an insecure person and you try and battle you insecurities, you tend to put a lot of pressure on yourself which is not a healthy thing for your mental capacity. Your insecure state of mind can make you do the negative things that you don't normally do or handle a certain situation a different way than you would normally handle it. You have to be a strong person on the inside and not let things get to you. Be uplifting and think positive. Be optimistic of what can happen. Life is too short to try and please yourself just because of what happened in one's past or whatever the case may be. You see, I am a very insecure person. I am insecure about a lot of things but by NO means am I a weak person whatsoever. I handle things the best way I know how and if I cannot accomplish something then I find a way to fix that. My mentality is there is a solution some way somehow. That is the same thing when it comes to relationships you cannot just be in them just because, you have to dedicate yourself just like you would with a career. You are suppose to be happy with the person that you have within yourself not try to be something that you are not. Be you and only you! God put you on this earth for a reason and he made you to be a certain way. If someone has something that you want and you can't have it DO NOT try and retaliate and try to find something better because its not help anything. What kind of person would you be because of what you just did. Be logical with yourself. Focus on fixing you in a more mature and rational kind of way not in a way that will determine whether you can go against yourself or your insecurity. You know there is so much to say but I cannot think right now so I will finish the rest of my unsaid business in the next blog.